How do you maintain a drug and alcohol free shelter with issues that are so deeply embedded in each other?
Develop Strategies for Safety and Sobriety
- Have releases of information and identify who to call for help (e.g. sponsor, counselor, Alcohol Drug Help Line); help program participant form support systems, know about safe meetings; consider having an on-site support group.
- Get educated. Know information about addiction. Talk to women in recovery. Purchase resources, videos, recovery workbooks, posters, etc. to make your program ‘user’ friendly.
- Remove substances and paraphernalia from the program (e.g. cough syrup and mouth washes with alcohol, pseudoephedrine, old medications, etc.)
- Recognize unsafe persons, places, things putting a woman’s sobriety at risk can also threaten her safety.
- Understand how to deal with legal and other problems stemming from addiction (e.g. health, OCS/CPS involvement, poor nutrition) contributing to safety problems
- Help program participants assemble paperwork to determine eligibility for substance abuse treatment, public assistance, employment, school, housing or other options.
- Know how domestic violence can be a relapse issue and know how batterers use both addiction status and substances to harm program participants
- Understand physical, emotional, cognitive, environmental and other cues indicative of risk for use and have a plan to help program participants deal with these issues; recognize the role of stress and craving, have a plan to help program participants deal with these issues as well.
- Help program participants learn parenting options, figure out options to engage in relationships, develop sober friendships
- Be consistent but flexible
- Address substance abuse issues promptly. Note concerns verbally or in the log (not client file) and shred the log regularly. Address alcohol/drug issues promptly. Do not fail to address alcohol/drug issues more than one shift. Delays increase risk and make advocacy and safety more challenging.
- Seek consultation regularly; hypotheticals with non-identifying info do not breach confidentiality.
- Prioritize hiring recovering advocates and/or advocates with substance abuse prevention or counseling backgrounds. Recruit recovering women as volunteers and staff.
- Consider addressing addiction both as a safety issue and as anti-oppression work. You are preventing able-bodyism and keeping batterers from benefiting from negative stereotypes about women with addiction. This is a life long process.
Getting Safe and Sober: Real Tools You Can Use©Alaska Network on Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 2005